Now that the trolls have begged me to open up, and I did, I begin to wonder if I should really bash my wife with this blog. I have reviewed my posts since leaving her, and I haven’t found one bash. So I think turn around is fair play. But for the sake of fair play, I will leave it up to you, my readers, to make that decision. Please proceed to the polls.
Since I have been accused already…
The polls will be open until 12pm EST on Saturday. At this time I will begin the next post. Please feel free to leave a comment telling me why you think I should or shouldn’t bash her. Have a great week.
Rants and Raves 
Accusations aside, this troll voted no….and Emily Dickinson put it in words much better than I could.
Yesterday is History,
’tis so far away —
yesterday is Poetry,
’tis Philosophy —
Yesterday is Mystery —
Where it is today —
While we shrewdly speculate
Flutter both away
One should leave the past in the past, ..and focus on one’s future…that’s where one will find happiness !!!
~psj~
By: pixiejustice on March 4, 2014
at 6:24 am
Thanks for the input Pixie.
By: grantahelms on March 4, 2014
at 2:51 pm
The easier way to start an argument is to put up a meme which misspells argument. IJS
By: Red on March 4, 2014
at 8:35 am
LOL! Just for you grammer nazi.
By: grantahelms on March 4, 2014
at 2:51 pm
I vote ‘Undecided’, here are my reasons.
1. Bashing seems to harsh a word and would lead one to believe you would be indiscriminate with your words.
2. Bashing would lead me to believe you wouldn’t be accountable for your share of what went wrong.
Instead of bashing, why not a simple exploration of the marriage and the shared responsibilities of what went wrong. If this includes a harsher than normal assessment of your ‘wife’ and her behaviors, so be it. I say let the chips fall, if those who have been protected by your kindness to now get their feelings hurt, ‘oh well’.
This however leads me to also say, others may also get hurt, including the trolls who continue to stir up the shit.
By: Valentine Logar on March 4, 2014
at 12:20 pm
Thanks Val.
By: grantahelms on March 4, 2014
at 2:52 pm
I Voted undecided as well i don’t do bashing hehe. But telling the truth about someone is a totally different thing!
By: Kayla Helms on March 7, 2014
at 6:03 pm